Friday, January 4, 2008
So If You Are Engaged And Your Fiance Cheats Do You Give Back The Ring?
So Today, I am reading Cosmo and I come to this article about people who are engaged and they ask a question...If you are engaged and your fiance' cheats on you should you give the ring back? As a woman, I am thinking if the idiot cheats why should you give it back? If you say you love someone and you give them a ring, doesn't that mean committment? I mean come on how stupid can you be? Why do we reward them with the ring....and what if they give it to the next gal? I remember on an episode of Sex In The City where Miranda gets pregant and Steve the baby's father comes to her door with a ring that Carrie found from her boyfriend who was going to propose with and hated...Miranda was the one who found this ring.... and she gets it???? Isn't that bad luck? Like a tainted ring? So I understand there are circumstances where you give the ring back and you "rid" yourself of this experience and move on. And they say this is healthy. Then you say... what if I use the money I make from the ring and buy myself a new wardrobe for the pain this creap has caused me....Which method is better? What is right? I can see if the ring was the grandmother's or mothers....I would give it back.... In some states they actually have laws...Like Texas where if you break off the engagement whether one cheats or not and you don't give back the ring, the groom can sue you. He has rights to claim this back? If you throw it away you are responsible to give the money back to him if he has the reciept...This is nuts! Come on ladies...I want your opinion...If you have ever been engaged and you gave the ring back...or you didn't..Tell us why????? I am not saying by any means that all men cheat...We have many great guys out there! I married one..and I know I have met many... In the article 50% of all men said they should get the ring back....What do you think?
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